
Lord, Cynthia. RULES. New York: Scholastic.2006.
ISBN: 0-439-44382-2
Summary
Catherine is a typical tween girl who just wants to be normal. Her brother, David, is autistic, and has his own special set of needs that Catherine is all too aware of. She spends much of her time helping take care of him, so that her mother can work from home,and she just wants to have a normal summer vacation and become friends with the new girl that moved in next door.
"A boy can take off his shirt to swim, but not his shorts."
Catherine has created a set of rules to help David survive in the world, some of them while on the surface seem merely functional (and funny), actually are quite deep and reveal a lot about her intelligent but hurting character.
"Sometimes people laugh when they like you But sometimes they laugh to hurt you."
While going with David to occupational therapy, she meets a teenage boy, Jason, who cannot speak, but uses a word book to communicate. She begins to make words for him, and builds a relationship with him. She finds, however, that he likes her and she might like him, and she is embarrassed. He points out to her that maybe her rules aren't to protect David in the world, but to protect her, because she is embarrassed of him.
This is a penetrating story that deals gently with what it is like to be the "normal" sibling who takes responsibility of a child with special needs. Lord uses the rules and words that Catherine creates to express the world view of a twelve-year-old longing for her world to be different. . .to be normal. Catherine's circumstances seem real, as do her reactions, and as the reader you feel as ashamed as she does, because you might be just the same as she is- embarrassed about her brother and hiding behind rules. Her family life is realistic, and her feelings of resentment, because she is neglected compared to the attention David gets seem extraordinarily appropriate. She comes to see herself in a new light as she grows through the awkwardness and pain of her own life.
"Some people think they know who you are, when really they don't"
Reviews
In the able hands of the author, mother of an autistic child, Catherine's emotions come across as entirely convincing, especially her alternating devotion to and resentment of David, and her guilt at her impatience with him. Through her artwork, the heroine gradually opens up to Jason, a wheelchair-bound peer who can communicate only by pointing to words on cards. -Powell's Books http://www.powells.com/biblio/61-9780439443821-0
"Catherine is an endearing narrator who tells her story with both humor and heartbreak. A lovely, warm read, and a great discussion starter." — School Library Journal
Enrichment Activities
Create your own set of rules for David. Look at the rules that Catherine creates, and come up with your own.
OR
Put yourself in Catherine's shoes. Re-write a chapter of Rules, but think about what you would do differently. Include the reactions that other people have because of your choices, and the impact that it has on David specifically.